Strategy 2: Accept

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Description

Accept what is and see what happens

Effect

A deadlocked situation becomes a new possibility

Timing

Two situations: If reality is unchangable, if resistance is useless. If we need to confront truth. When fooling yourself or another is no longer possible.

Explanation

Do not only look to what is visible immediatly, also look to underlying trends (what does 'reality' 'want'). Move with this flow. Sometimes Reframing@nlp of what is can be sufficient. This may help you transfer loosing your job from a disaster to a new chance.